December 28th, 2016:.. Do you ever get so far down a path and feel good about yourself and where you are going, only to make one wrong decision and question everything back to the very beginning?
2016… what a year. This year was the craziest year of my life. Like any college graduate, their graduation year is full of non-planned events and uncharted territory. I thought I was walking toward a destination I was supposed to be walking toward. I thought I was going down a path that was built for me. How do we know we are on the wrong path if everything is going right at the time?
So many times I have heard, “God gives us only what we can handle.” I think this is a nice cliche saying that gets people through a hard time, which is a great thing to have. I think God gives us beyond what we can handle so that we are forced to press into Him.
Do you ever find yourself comparing your life and problems with that of your friends or coworkers? I know I do. I get down on myself because I begin to see the differences in our paths. I begin to question God’s intent. Why do I seem to experience things with more earth shattering shock and unrelenting heart ache?
I think God knows me too well. He knows I’m stubborn, power-seeking, and full of independence. He knows I’m stuck in my ways, He knows I feel things too deeply, and He knows the extreme of how I feel emotions. He made me after all.
God knows I can’t just be told something. He knows I struggle with listening. He knows just what I need, and He knows how to make me notice. He’s my Father, the man that loves me far beyond imagine. God may shake me a little harder when I’m in the wrong, but I’m starting to recognize I need that.
Do you think God shakes you too hard? Do you think He lets you hit rock bottom a little more than the people around you?
It’s not because He’s a mean God, it’s because He’s a good Father.
I think if we were truly honest with ourselves, we would understand why God does what he does. If God didn’t bring me down to my breaking point every time, I, for one, wouldn’t listen. I know I wouldn’t. Then I wouldn’t have the opportunity to look up at Him and say: “Yep, I needed that.” He may give me harsh wake up calls, but it’s the only way for me personally to recognize that, “I need You, Lord, again and again.” …and again.